Am I being Over Sensitive to my mother's behavior?

I am not going to tell you to love and respect your mother. That has to come from you, or not. You don't seem to have a lot of options except trying to stay out of her way as much as possible. Is there a way you can spend more time at school so that you can be in a calm environment. Maybe talk to your boyfriend more on the computer and less face to face as this seems to be what sets your mother off. Try to hang on to the fact that in four years you can move out and have as much--or little contact with your parents as you like. Hang in there, E-mail me if you like.