Is my ex boyfriend out of his mind?

Okay so he's not just "harsh". He's a total jerk to you. And like i tell many other women on yahoo, "You're settling for less than what you desserve". If you were so bothered by it, he should've found other alternatives to make you feel at ease with it. You have EVERY right to know, it's your business too since yall're in a relationship. Sounds like either he's a total jerk, or he does have something and is trying to hide it from you. Trust your gut instincts, it's there for a reason. Good Luck! =)