I need a tight shake to get me out of the mood?

let me tell you girl that you girls are always insecure why is that and for what is that its your problem but boys love you a lot than you love any boy, i have been instead i am in such a situation and my mind is always in her dreams where she has not talked to me till 5 mnths and reasons insecurities bull **** these insecurities you are actually not in love nor were in love you got what you deserved!